The Tooth Fairy…

When you have children, you have a season of kids losing their teeth. 

For me, as it is for most things in my life…the season is LONG…

Like with Diapers…Tom and I have realized that we have been buying and changing diapers for over 15 years now…non-stop!

We are on the verge of potty training our LAST child!!  He is a boy, he is stubborn, but he is ready! 

So I will begin this summer.

Once we are done with diapers, we will be having a PARTY!  We have been planning it for over a year!  Of course, we will make it quite humorous…I can’t wait!  TRUST ME…I can’t wait!!

Back to tooth loss…           

I have multiple children losing teeth at the same time.  Sometimes we have thought the tooth fairy has dropped the ball.  When the specific child went to look for their money in their tooth fairy pillow, that Ramie made for each of them, at times it wasn’t there.  Some times she came a day late with the loot and a note apologizing for her delay.  (Usually with a little extra change…)

There have been times where she hid the money in another place in the room.  Like on a shelf, or tucked into the light switch on the wall.  She is creative for sure!

Kieran, my 10 year old has lost 2 teeth in a week!  With his 1st tooth he lost last week, she hid the pillow in MY room on my shelf in the dormer!  Really, I think what happened, is Rowan, my 2 year old, found the pillow in his room, sneaking up there, when the gate was left open, and brought it downstairs with him.  He was playing with it, and stuck it in a shelf.  I actually was the one that found it.  Of course, I didn’t tell Kieran that I thought it was his 2 year old brother, but I told him that she was playing a game with him.        

(These pics of Kieran were several years ago when he lost his 1st 2 teeth!  (Love the 3rd one!!)

Last night, he came into my room about 10 ish, holding yet another molar in his hand.  He proudly showed Tom and I.  Took it back upstairs to his room and put it in his pillow, and left the pillow on the ladder of his bunk bed.

This morning he came in bright and early, for us anyway, before 8:00 am, looking for his pillow!!  He said it was gone.  He started looking in my room.  Searching the hallway closets and such.  I had to remind him that the rest of the household was still asleep and to please not look until later, or make sure he was quiet.

Well, about 10 minutes ago he came in my room with his TF pillow, his cash, and a HUGE smile on his face!  He bubbled as he told me she had hidden the pillow in the living room up high in one of the beams in our house. ( we have a timberframe house)

He had to use something to help get it down.  I said, “She’s playing with you…”  He said, “Yes”, as he beamed from ear to ear.

These are memories…these bring a tear to my eye and a smile to my face and my heart.  This is the magic of childhood!  I cherish each and every little moment  like this!  Because, I have heard from my Nana Deacon and my mom, Ramie, they grow up fast so enjoy it while you can.  I can see it already with my oldest, who is almost 16, and ready to flee at any given moment!  (As it should be…although painful for the mother unit.)

We have a lot more teeth to come out and many more visits from the tooth fairy left over the next few years.

I can’t wait to see what she/he? does in the future!  

To Travel or not to Travel…that is the question…

So,  I have made a plan to go out to Las Vegas to spend a few days with my husband.  I haven’t seen him much over the past few months.  He has been out of town a lot with work.  I wasn’t going to go, then decided to 2 weeks ago.  So I bought my ticket to LA.  Why LA? Well, the Vegas flights are expensive and full, because Sunday is the ACM’s.  So I decided to fly to LA and rent a car and drive to Vegas.  Well, Tom flies in from Hawaii, and will be in LA Thursday night.  He is supposed to fly to Vegas on Friday morning.  I am flying in to LA at 11:30am Friday am.  Tom was going to drive to Vegas with me.  Not sure if that will work or not.  He has a commitment that evening.

I feel like I am jumping through hoops for several days with Tom.  Our only day off is Saturday.  He has the show on Sunday and then takes a red eye back to Nashville. I will then drive back to LA and spend the day and night with one of my closest friends, Lauren.  Then I fly back to Nashville Tuesday.  I leave VERY early in the morning.

I am so tired, I am wondering…Is this the right thing to do?  Will this exhaust me more, or will I come back refreshed?  I don’t know.  I think I will pray and sleep in it…

Tonight is a bad night for me.  I am fried, tired, exhausted, beat, down, bitchy, cranky, blue, and more!  Seriously, I am truly done.  Am I making a mistake?  I feel like I am just jumping through hoops!  Don’t know if it will all work, don’t know what to do…

I know I need a break, I know Tom needs a break, I know we need a break together.  I know our kids need a break from us and life as well.  I have no family in town.  I have 6 kids.  I have amazing friends!  But I don’t know how to leave for 5 days or more.  I just feel like it’s too much for my friends to deal with.

What is a girl to do?

Learning how to say NO…

This is something that I claim I am good at.  I preach at my friends to do.  I talk to my kids about it, so they can take care of themselves.  BUT…when it comes to me…in all honesty…I STINK at saying NO!!  I do too much, for my kids, my husband, my family, my friends…

It’s quite stupid!  I say yes, I get overwhelmed, cranky, angry, yelling, bitchy, all at me, but I take it out on everyone else.  Times I really don’t enjoy myself during an event, but after it is over, my selective forgetfulness kicks in and I am off to do it again!!!

What the heck???!!!

What is wrong with me?  Oh yeah, I want to fit in, I want to keep everyone happy…Or what I think will keep them happy…with me!!!

Today was “CulitvateHer” at church.  I love it!  It is once a month, from 7:00 am to about 8:30 am.  Women getting together listening to a motivating speaker, talk about amazing things!  Totally nurturing, uplifting, and necessary!  I DON’T like to miss this, it’s only once a month.

Last night, I made a choice to not go.  It was difficult…I felt guilty.  But I chose no.  I don’t sleep…it was already 2:45 am.  I knew my kids would be sleeping until about 8:30.  But I was going to get up at 6 to be there by 7.  So I could have just a few hours of sleep?  I was proud for a moment for deciding no.  But then felt guilty, I fought with myself over this.  I decided, that I need sleep.  I have a lot to do today…And I want to enjoy the rest of my day.  I am planning a tea party this evening.  I have to cook and bake…I chose to not try to do everything today.  I chose to take care of me, even just a little bit!

I woke up and the sky didn’t fall…my kids slept in until 8:30ish…

I am working on my list for the store.  I am relaxed, and excited.  I am ready to enjoy my day.  Will I remember to say no again?  I don’t know.  It’s a fine line for me.  I am hoping that I will.  I am praying that I will.

The best answer I can give…

I will try.

Why is it so difficult to write a blog post?

I have posts that I have started and not finished…why is it so difficult for me to write a blog post?  Could it be that I am home with 5 of my 6 children and am sick and exhausted?  Or that Tom is out of town and I am home with 6 kids?  I know what I want to say, when I get to the edit page…murphy’s law kicks in and I am interrupted with something…then distracted, then just forget.

Ugh!

I will try to post something tomorrow.  In the mean time.  Pray for me, pray for sleep, pray for no more stomach bug…

Pray for rest.  I am exhausted.  I am exhausted. Did I say I am exhausted? I want a break.  I want to enjoy life, and I don’t think I am.  I think I am too busy to enjoy the little things.  Not all of them, but I am sure many.  I just want this train to stop.  I want to do nothing with my family.  I want to video tape them and laugh with them.  Play games, and watch a dvd with them.  Even that is difficult at times.  I tried tonight, and kids constantly moving, up and down, bored, switching places, just itching to move.  It was exhausting for me.  It was late, so, we only watched 3/4 of the movie.

I want my oldest daughter to join me in watching movies or dumb tv shows instead of watching them on her computer in the living room by herself.

I find that I really want to sing again.  I miss that part of me.  So that is my next feat.  To sing again, for people, make funny movies of my family, and laugh!  I love to laugh!

OK, I am finished and am going to post this…

Our Dysfunctional Small Group, better known as DSG…

Tom and I have been attending Crosspoint Community Church in Nashville, TN since the 1st meeting in May of 2002.  I remember, because I was newly pregnant with Lily, child number 4.  It was very hot, and there was NO air-conditioning at the Bellevue Community Center.  I was so sick, and didn’t know if I would survive.  It was amazing, Pete was amazing, the people that were there were amazing, we were hooked right away.

We were searching, seeking, begging God for a great church that we ALL would love. Young, Pete Wilson, was perfect.  We attended the meetings all through the summer, joined the new church, and did the “small group” leadership training.  I still have my black training manual.

We started a group, and right from the start, ours took on a life of it’s own.  We had several people really going through some tough junk, so we walked them through.  We didn’t stop our group, or be a part of small group fairs.  I did meet with Pastor Pete and let him know what was going on, and make sure that he was fine with it.  He was…

Over the 7 years, we have added couples, and we we have added kids!  Tom and I have 6 kids on our own!!  Bret and Diana P. have 6 kids as well.  Our small group, has turned into a “teen…tween, and kid” haven.  We are not a normal group.  Hence the name: Dysfunctional Small group.  We meet every other Saturday, weather permitting…and we meet for a long time.  We start at 6:30, eat dinner, and we go until 12 or later…It is an event.  It is magic and our KIDS Love it, they crave it, they get very upset when we don’t have it.  How cool is that???

We are not a small group, we are a medium group…We are starting up next Saturday, and I am excited!  I love to delegate!  We will have a study for the teen girls, the teen boys, the tween boys and girls and the little ones.  We will then have a study for the adults.  We will have mini-studies on Manners!  (A must for teens, especially if they are going to be involved in any kind of mission work)  We will still eat, and we will definitely “hang” together.

I will continue to blog about our special group.

I love it, and I love everyone in it.  I love the teens, and tweens, (even though they scare me)

and the younger kids!

I love that we are investing in them, and learning and growing from each other!

I love that we are living life together and loving each other through the good, the bad and the ugly times!

I am excited to see what amazing things God has in store for this group in 2010!